~ DAY 7~ LOVE BELIEVES THE BEST~
(Love) believes all things, hopes all the things. 1 Corinthians 13:7
When you think of your spouse what comes to mind first?
The things that you admire or the things that irritate you?
It is so much easier to focus on the failures instead of the good attributes!
But love chooses to believe the best about people, focus on the positive instead of the negative!!
~~TODAY"S DARE~~
FOR TODAY'S DARE, GET OUT TWO PIECES OF PAPER. ON THE FIRST ONE, SPEND A FEW MINUTES WRITING OUT POSITIVE THINGS ABOUT YOUR SPOUSE. THEN DO THE SAME WITH NEGATIVE THINGS ON THE SECOND SHEET. PLACE BOTH SHEETS IN A SECRET PLACE FOR ANOTHER DAY. THERE IS A DIFFERENT PURPOSE AND PLAN FOR EACH. AT SOME POINT DURING THE REMAINDER OF THE DAY, PICK A POSITIVE ATTRIBUTE FROM THE FIRST LIST AND THANK YOUR SPOUSE FOR HAVING THIS CHARACTERISTIC!
Which list was easier to make?
What did this reveal about your thoughts?
What attribute did you thank your spouse for having?
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